Blu and I finally got married last Feb. 16 at 10:30 am. My Aunt said that being married on a Thursday and on a "16th" at "10:30 am" all spell luck. I hope she's right, though we chose the date and time without really thinking about all these. Blu and I - we've been together since 1997 and we really did work hard to make our relationship work, and continue to work. So I think "luck" is just a bonus. In the end, it will still be up to us. It will always be up to us two.
Having said that...I'm so happy that we finally did it, took that simple step. We had been wanting to get married for some time now but there were always some hindrances -- on top of the list was his tight working schedule. Well, I'm glad we've gone passed that because in this busy world, that's one thing that will always be there - crazy working schedule.
It was just a simple civil wedding. It didn't take long. And the photographer was funny. He told the two of us to pose, and we did with all our smiles and with Blu doing his own wacky expressions and poses. After a few minutes he told us that his camera was locked. PFFFT!!! And then he told us to pose again, only this time - his film needed to be changed. GRRRR!!!
It was simple, no frills and it was what we wanted. No tensions, no pressure to entertain many people and no big budget needed (that's the best part! hahaha). After the ceremony, the happiness that we felt was the calming kind - the kind that slowly sinks in and seeps through, the kind that lingers, and the kind that makes you smile softly at each other for a long long time.
We spent the rest of the day together doing our "comfort" stuffs. We had dinner, watched a movie (to be able to cuddle *wink*) and then we went to the fair at UP to relive the old days when we were just starting to date. Strange, but that was how it really felt like...like we were just starting to date. Maybe that's what marriage creates...that sense of peace that will make you eager to start over.
Tuesday, February 21, 2006
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